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The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women- And What To Do About It…

2011-07-23T20:11:00.000-07:00

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And written By David DeAngelo, Author Of “Double Your Dating”

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women-And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes…

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted “nice” guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I’m sure you’ve had attractive female friends that always seemed to date “jerks”… but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.

What’s going on here?

It’s actually very simple…

Women don’t base their choices of men on how “nice” a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn’t make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn’t make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn’t make a lot of logical sense, and it’s hard to ACCEPT… but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you’ll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To “Convince Her To Like You”

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like… but she’s just notinterested?

Right! They try to “convince” the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you… YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN “FEELS” WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with “logic and reasoning”.

Think about it.

If a woman doesn’t “feel it” for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being “reasonable” with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn’t interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman’s “approval” or “permission”.

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them… EVER.

Don’t get me wrong here.

You don’t have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means “always getting her approval and permission for things”, think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her…

MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn’t treat her even HALF as well as you did?

If you’re like me, then you’ve had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It’s only NATURAL when this happens…

That’s right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

“I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection”.

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That’s right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE #5: Sharing”How You Feel” Too Early In The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they “feel” too early on.

Attractive women are rare.

And they get a LOT of attention from men.

Most men don’t realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE

An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what?

Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.

That’s right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying “You know, I really, REALLY like you” after one or two dates.

This signals to the woman that you’re just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast… and can’t control themselves.

Don’t do it. Lean back. Relax.

There’s a much better way…

MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women

Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.

You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.

But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their “attraction mechanisms” triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and they’re attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

But it’s not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

And ANY guy can learn how…

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they’ve even gotten started… because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who are a certain age.

And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

But MOST women are far more interested in a man’s personality than his wallet or his looks.

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet…

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

YOU DO NOT have to “settle” for a woman just because you aren’t rich, tall, or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it’s a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.

Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.

Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.

Another bad idea…

Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over… Women aren’t attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women

Now I’m going to blow your mind…

A woman ALWAYS knows what you’re thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That’s ten TIMES.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you’re out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don’t know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won’t help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating…

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical… everything.

If you don’t know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up… and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman… from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.

I know, guys don’t like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don’t like to ask for help.

Hey, I’ve been there myself.

Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women…

About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn’t know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.

It frustrated the hell out of me.

One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn’t get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night… right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.

What Do Women Look For in a Man? 3 Surprising Qualities You Better Have to Get the Girl!

2011-07-22T05:19:00.000-07:00

In this article we are going to look at 3 qualities women look for in a man that probably will surprise you...(ESPECIALLY if you are out of high school or college!) The simple truth is that a woman's taste in MANY things evolves over time, and that includes MEN! So continue reading to check out some of the latest popular secret surveys and see where YOU fall on the totem pole of possibility and potential! Read on..:-)
Dependability is #1!
Surprise? I don't think so....but many of my male friends said yes! Women look for dependable men they can count on progressively as they get older, as the allure of the irresponsibility of youth gets farther away and less attractive to boot!
Kill Her With Kindness
Think the bad boy is what women REALLY want? Think again! In survey after survey, kindness and sensitivity are RIGHT at the top for almost ALL women out of the high school and college age groups, proving once again that with age comes wisdom! If you are still playing the very same act you had going on with your fraternity brothers way back when....trust me when I tell you it doesn't bode well for future babes!
The Parental Gene
Yes - she WILL want to be a mother! (or at least MOST women will) And for the vast majority who do....she looks for the parental instinct in you! Again, this is universal and consistent across just about EVERY survey that is done - women WANT a man who shows that he can and WILL be a good father...often looking at how a man interacts with younger siblings, co-workers or extended family to form a (lasting!) impression!
So Take heed, guys...and put on the BEST behavior if you've got a girl that you WANT to go the distance with...she's checking you out in MORE ways than one!

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3 Tips For A Successful Relationship - Harmonizing Differences

2011-07-22T05:04:00.000-07:00

Wow! Its been a very long time that i posted on this blog and i feel that i owe you (my regular visitors) an apology. However, the i am about serving you a great "meal"(content) on how to have a successful relationship despite the differences between mates in a love relationship: its my heart desire that this article is of great benefit to you. I sincerely hope so, here is the article

"In a rapidly globalizing world, it is becoming more and more common to see people of different mindsets, attitudes and cultures getting into relationships with each other and even being confident of expressing their individuality. While this is great at many levels, it also brings its own set of problems. In fact, it is virtually impossible to find the right approach for a successful relationship without getting some relationship advice and knowing the skill of dealing with differences.
1. The Importance of Being Communicative
Let's say you are American and your partner is Japanese. Besides, you like your late night shows on television while he is an early riser. If neither of you is adaptable, it is very likely that you will soon start to experience difficulties in your relationship. To begin with, it is extremely crucial that both of you communicate with each other. tell your partner what you like about them, and what you find somewhat irritating or difficult to adjust to, and do it calmly and tactfully. Expect to hear the same too. Obviously, you could push your grievances under the carpet now, but then they will manifest themselves in an ugly way when you fight. That will only produce bad blood. Instead, if you are communicative and frank, you will be able to build trust and goodwill.
2. Helping Each Other Grow
By being communicative, you will also help each other adapt and grow. It is a crucial skill in today's world to be able to adapt your behavior and accommodate differences. By helping each other learn this skill, you will really strengthen your bond. However, while there are changes your partner will be willing to make, there will also be things they will not want to change. The same goes for you, so, you will both need to take little steps forward and find a balance where both of you are happy. Sometimes it happens that one person ends up making most of the adjustments over a period of time. That is one of the major causes of a failed relationship.
3. The Challenge of Different Lifestyles
Lifestyle differences pose the biggest challenge, especially those which clash directly, such as when one person likes to sleep early and the other likes to stay up late, or if there is one spare room in the house, which one wants to convert into a yoga and meditation room and the other into a study. Here, you need to be aware that just as you would want to preserve certain elements of your lifestyle, so would your partner. You don't want to begin compromising the things you love. Instead, show some initiative to include the other person's preferences into your life. It is a fine balance, and you both will need to do this.
So, if you sleep at different times, try to get some quality time with each other in the evening. If you have different aspirations for your spare room, perhaps it can be converted into a study with light furniture, which can be moved aside when your partner wants to do his yoga and meditation. At the end of the day, you both need to be mature and willing to grow to make your relationship work.

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How To Tell If Somebody Is Into You

2010-03-10T05:19:00.000-08:00

Sometimes it can be difficult to tell if somebody is into you, interested in you likes you, has a crush on you etc, there are so many mixed signals out there and so many people that just like to flirt there's no wonder why it's easy to get confused.

One of the first steps that can help you in determining if somebody is into you is how often you see them and under what circumstances. Look for signs that they have gone out of their way to "bump into you" if they know you are going to be somewhere today just happened to always show up. When you do happen to be at the same place, do they make an effort to say hello as soon as they see you? If so, this can be a great sign that somebody is into you or has a crush on you.

Another great tool in determining if somebody is into you is to listen to see if they keep mentioning their future plans. This rings especially true for women, if a guy keeps saying things like "hey I may try this new restaurant this weekend" or "I'm going to a baseball game", these can easily be signs that he's looking for a way to ask you if you would like to join him.

Speaking of speaking, when you do have conversations with your suspect do they seem to always make efforts to keep the conversation going? Do they seem extremely interested in your life, the things you are interested in and your future plans? If they are there is a good chance that they have feelings for you.

Does your suspect easily cancel plans if the opportunity to spend time with you comes up? Yet another great way you can tell if somebody is into.

As for body language, if you are looking to tell if somebody is into you, look for signs like them touching you on your shoulder, blushing, constant smiling or running their hands through their hair. Sometimes people that have a crush on someone else tend to unconsciously mirror their physical actions or facial expressions. And last but not least there is the old telltale body positioning signs if their legs are crossed toward you this is a good sign.

Sometimes it just takes time to tell if somebody is into you or not but if you look for the right signs you may be able to find out sooner than later.

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What You Can Do To Be Attractive To The Opposite Sex.

2010-01-22T14:00:00.000-08:00

Some of the things we do in life only requires simple obvious steps for us to succeed at them but the truth is that we tend to complicate issues. We think that if it is not complex it might not be the right thing to do. Most times we are wrong if we entertain this kind of thinking.The issue of attracting the opposite sex is not an exception in this case.

In this post i will be discussing some obvious things about attracting the opposite sex that you might not be using to your advantage. Your dressing,your attitude and your level of intelligence.

Okay, these are not what other gurus will mention but please follow me.

Your dressing. you might not be too tight when you dress nor might be neccessary for you to be expensive when you appear but ensure that you are appropriately dressed for occassions.be formal when you need to and casual when you have to. The basic idea is that you should be neat and tidy with your appearance-you clothe.

Attitude. This one is a great winner any time. It has to be with the underlying trait that can be read as what informs your actions. You see, alot of psychology goes into relationships or attraction between people of the opposite sex and the basic thing about habit -psychology-is that it helps you to come across as you really are.Wether you are positive and negative. This will require a level of interaction for some time before it yields any meaningfull result. Atleast enough for time for your positive attitude to be appreciated for what it is .What i will say about the effect of attitude is that it determines your altitude in attracting member of the opposite sex. being caring, ffectionate, ready to help, et.c are things i have decided to classify as attitudes.

Intelligence is attractive. Another name i will call it is 'common sense'. Common sense is not common. This one reason it is attractive-its rearity.

i hope you have learnt one or two things here?

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Finding That Perfect Match

2010-01-14T12:55:00.000-08:00

I was reading an article on the ezine directory recently and i came across this article that i will want you my esteemed readers to read. its a great information and i believe you will not regret ever stopping by to read it.
This article is all about how you can get a proffessional matchmaker to help you find that ''special some'' meant for you.

HERE IS THE ARTICLE....

''Finding That Perfect Match ''

''We've all done it before. We've all had a moment, a day, a week or a month where we took the time to sit and think about how it would be when we find our perfect match. The thought of finding that certain someone who will sweep you off of your feet and make you so happy always stays inside of our hearts patiently waiting for that moment to arrive. Finding that perfect match is a dream every single person has. It is the motivation that keeps you in the dating world. You date in hopes of meeting that one person who will turn your dreams into reality. You hope one day soon it will happen and you will find true love. Finding true love is certainly possible. Of course it will take patience, time and motivation. Of course you will have let downs. Of course there will be times when you thought you found what you were looking for only to discover that it was fake. These things are certainly bound to happen, but if you keep focused on what you desire in your heart, you will find that perfect match.

If you are tired of doing all of the searching yourself, you can look to the help of a professional matchmaker. A professional matchmaker is very skilled in helping you find your perfect time. They could even take less time in finding your perfect match than it would take you to find them because of the experience and resources they have. Professional matchmakers know more people than you do. They even know more people that are compatible with you than you do. This makes it all the better for you to use their services. Professional matchmakers have a database full of people that are looking for the perfect match. There will certainly be a number of people that are looking for a perfect match and are highly compatible matches for you. In this case the professional matchmaker will make a list of these people and recommend them to you. You will then be given the opportunity to browse through the recommended list of people profiles and choose the people that are of interest to you. You can then go out on a date with these people and see what happens from there.

Professional matchmakers are there to help you find your perfect match. That is their jobs, to pair up people that are compatible and see if there is a connection. If there isn't a connection then you will just move on to the next person. If there is a connection and you feel you have found your perfect match then the professional matchmakers job is done and you can continue on with building a strong and happy relationship. Professional matchmakers give you all the guidance and help you will need to find your perfect match. Alongside setting you up on dates with compatible matches they are also there to give you advice and help when you need it. Finding your perfect match will be easy and effortless when you get the help of a professional matchmaker.

Allen Tane is an experienced writer on the professional singles market and perfect match dating. He has been writing for quite a while and has had countless articles published. Some of Allen's most favorite topics to write on include single professionals over 30, mature professional singles, relationships, and perfect match matchmaking. Allen's articles are well written and memorable. They are especially great for anyone looking to start dating and still keep up with their daily activities.

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3 HOT TIPS FOR THE LOVER

2009-12-29T12:42:00.000-08:00

Are you in love with a girl and she seems not to be REALLY aware of it? Then this post will be found useful it will befound to contain the 3 HOT TIPS that will become indispensable to the LOVERboy.

These three things i will suggest, here namely,

1] SPEAK SWEET WORD TO HER

2] TAKE HERE OUT

3] BE THERE ALWAYS FOR HER

Ok lets look briefly into each.

1] Speak sweet words to her; ladies like sweet words. It turns them on.It will leave a memory with them while you have long left their presence. Dont be surpride as she may start to open up to more and more. Lets reason together, if she is someone you have romantic feelings for then say weet romantis words and she will see you in the romantic light.

2] Take her out, i will only say take her out regularly. This is another strategy tat will make being with you memorable.You will have the activities you engaged in lingering in her mind long after you have both arrived at your various homes.

3] here i remeber LUTHER VANDROS' SONG 'buy me a rose'. If she says she wants to go on a stroll offer to go with her. pamper her a bit with your presence and caring acts and before you know it she is always rushing to your outstreched hands.

Try this THREE TIPSand you will be glad you did.

Where Is Your Happiness?

2009-11-21T15:03:00.000-08:00

It is better you understand that your happiness is dependent on you. Though you might love your your patner very much you need to know that it is too risky to give someone so much power over your live that they hold the power to your happiness.I think you should be wise enough to know better.

Ok, what exactly am i driving at?

I know that if you love someone you tend to ''be at the person's mercy'' so to say but you need to realise you need to be more realistic than allow emotions to do you in. It is a fact that alot of relationships have ended on a sad note with one partner becoming the victim of love so to say.These victims of love made a mistake of being too succeptible in such relationship to heart break. Here is a short story of someone i will call Alice.

Alice is a young lady who is just starting out in live and she fell love with a gentle man who was an angel in human skin. Their relationship was an enviable one until all of a sudden the guy decided to dump her for some one else.

This experience was so devastating to her that she lost concentration for monts and this affected so much that she could not even do simple things well. It was so bad that that she was mixing oil and water together when she shouldn't.Atimes you will have to nudge her before she knows you are calling her though you her close to.

She became so devasted that she decided to start sleeping around with men even those she didn't have an ounce of romantic feelings for.She in the process contacted sexually transmitted infections and gave birth to an infected child.

Today when she sees her child and the suffering it experienes because of its health status it pains her heart.She seemed so sad every moment of her live.

All this happened because she gave that her boyfriend so much power that affected her life in the way it did now.

So be emotionally involved in that relationship whith that special person but do be so emotionally involved that it will be to the detriment of your wellbeing or your future life.

Sending Hot Text Messages - Flirt Or Seduce the Girl You Want Via SMS

2009-11-21T15:01:00.001-08:00

If you think that distance is going to make your relationship stale or even if you are worried that a man could definitely steal her away from you while she is at work then you need to constantly remind her of your love. Problem is that you do not know when she is in a meeting or when she is in the girls' room or if she is available to talk. The more you try to call her, the more desperate you are to become and irritate her further if she is busy in a meeting. So what can you possible do? Here is you answer.
Technology has grown so much that communication has become easier, simpler and less expensive. Thanks to the availability of text messages, now you don't just have to convey your messages but you can also flirt, seduce and remind your girl of your never ending love.
Remember women like surprises. When your girl is least expecting it, then send her a love note or even a naughty note through a text message.
You can now a text message to remind her of the wonderful time you guys had last night and how you are unable to concentrate on your work thinking of it.
Tell her that you have a beautiful surprise and the kinkiest one she will ever come across. Tell her that via an SMS! Get her intrigued and wanting to get back home to find out what her surprise is!
Now even you can flirt and seduce any girl. Apart from this you can also confess your true love and keep reminding her that you are hers for life as much as she yours.
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How to Flirt With Women - These 2 Easy Techniques will Make Her Become HOT With DESIRE

2009-11-21T14:58:00.000-08:00

Guys, you gotta know how to flirt with women. That is, of course, unless you prefer to go home empty handed. Or if you would rather play PlayStation on a Friday night. I am assuming that is not the case, however. See, most men look at flirting with a woman the WRONG way. They only think about the end result. But to get what you want at the end, you have to be able to flirt with a woman that makes you irresistible to her.
How should you do this?
Here are 2 EASY Techniques that will make flirting with a woman a BREEZE for YOU:
1. Go for the laughter. You want to see a woman smile at you and have a good time. And the best way to do this is to make her laugh. When you do this, she starts to associate you with having fun. And guess who she is going to want to be with when she wants to have a good time? YOU. So, instead of trying to use a cheesy line, make her laugh instead. And keep her laughing.
2. Tease her. This is something that most men will never feel comfortable doing. After all, they are trying to impress the girl, so why tease her? Because it is FUN. As long as you don't go overboard and turn into a jerk, playfully teasing a girl is an EASY way to light up that spark within her. Girls just flat out enjoy this, if you do it the right way.
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How to Talk to Women -These are 3 Tips to Talk Your Way Into Her Heart

2009-11-21T14:52:00.000-08:00

As a guy, we all know that women and men communicate differently. It's been said a thousand times before. So, if you want to learn how to talk to women, you have to understand what kind of conversation women respond to. And I have to tell you, that most guys get this all WRONG! So, you are not alone if you feel like it is a struggle to talk to women in a way that creates attraction.
Here are three quick and easy tips to help you talk to women and work your way into her heart:
1. Make the conversation fun. The worst thing that you can do is to be boring. When you have a dry and bland conversation, there is no way that you are going to capture her attention and get her to feel attraction towards you. You have to make the conversation fun for HER. Then she will not let you get away.
2. Use her name. This is one of the easiest and most effective ways to really get her to notice you. Just don't over do it. Everyone, male and female likes to hear their name. Use her name when you ask a question or her opinion on something. This will generate a feeling of instant rapport between you and her.
3. Qualify her. Most guys NEVER do this. They try to use their conversation to impress the girl. Instead, make her impress YOU. When you talk to women, you have to have a sense of confidence about yourself and using things to qualify her generates attraction.
Knowing how to talk to women and use conversation to build attraction is something that every man should know how to do. When you can talk your way into her heart, you are as good as gold.
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This is How to Tell If a Shy Girl Likes You Or Not by Reading Her Body Language Signs

2009-11-21T14:48:00.000-08:00

The thing with girls is that you can never always tell whether they like you or not. This is most especially true when you're dealing with shy girls.
Shy girls don't really express themselves clearly and the signs they emit can be quite confusing sometimes. However, if you really want to know how to tell if a shy girl likes you or not, observing the body language signs discussed in this article might just do the trick.
In this article, you'll learn to be more observant. You'll also be able to read other people's emotions more clearly than before. Pretty soon, you'll be able to figure out just how to tell if a shy girl likes you or not.
Body Language Sign # 1: She's Glancing At You.
Girls like to stare at guys they like. Bolder girls would hold your gaze when caught, but the shy ones would automatically turn their head away as if nothing happened.
This is better for you though because girls who are in a hurry to turn their head away from you are the easiest ones to catch. You'll have to spot them doing that several times before you can safely say that she's interested in you.
Body Language Sign # 2: She Blushes A Lot.
One reliable way on how to tell if a girl likes you or not is when she's always tomato red around you. The paler the girl, the easier it is to spot the redness in her cheeks.
But blushes don't just appear out of nowhere. There has to be an incident that prompted the blush to appear. If you two are being teased together as couple, take the opportunity to study her reaction. Or if you approach her alone or offer her a cup of coffee, see whether she turns red or not.
Body Language Sign # 3: Her Friends Giggle Around You.
Thank God for friends. No matter how many best friends your shy girl has, they will always give her secret away. So if you want to know how to tell if a shy girl likes you or not, you need only to turn to her friends. Most of them will probably have knowing smiles on their faces, or their eyes would dart between you and the girl in particular.
It is very easy to learn how to tell if a shy girls likes you or not. All you have to do is look at the subtle body language signs and changes in the girl's demeanor. However, don't use these techniques to take advantage of women. Instead, use them to clear confusion and avoid messy episodes.
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3 tips on how to Speak to Women Easily

2009-11-21T14:45:00.000-08:00

In your quest for love, learning how to speak to women should be at the top of your agenda. Knowing how to speak to a woman correctly will not only help you in your love life, but quite possibly in your professional life as well. It can even help you make friends and grow your social circle, since people will see you as a sociable person to be around. Here are some great tips on how to break down the barriers and have a great conversation with a girl.
1. Tone
Your tone is very important when you are speaking to a woman (or anyone, for that matter). In fact, up to 30% of spoken communication is conveyed in your tone. Therefore, speak clearly and loud enough so that you project your voice evenly. Along with allowing the woman that you are speaking to the ability to hear you easily, you will also show a natural confidence that will come through in your speech.
2. Posture
Often when men speak to a woman they have never met, the men are nervous. This is natural, and should be taken into consideration when you are beginning to speak to women. Most importantly, the anxiety that can come with talking to a new girl can make you fidget and move unconsciously. This should be controlled in order to minimize distractions as well as make the person that you are speaking to as comfortable as possible.
Try to keep this in your mind as you are speaking to a woman. Keep track of where your hands are at all times, since these are the most likely culprits in fidgeting. You can use them to gesture when making a point, but try to limit your body movements as much as possible. It will show that you are comfortable in your own skin and are enjoying the conversation.
3. Be Prepared
Lastly, sometimes it is good to have a little bit of extra help in your back pocket for when the conversation starts to die down. Therefore, when you speak to women, try to come up with some topics that you can talk about beforehand. If you have already spoken to her before, then you can probably come up with your own unique topics.
If you haven't, however, then try to ask open ended, straightforward questions. This will help to get the ball rolling if there is a lull in the speaking, and to also make sure that the girl can't answer with a one word "yes" or "no". For example, one of my favorites is the classic "Who do you think lies more, men or women?" or "What are your pet peeves"?
Obviously you don't want to get too personal right away, but most women love these kinds of topics and will speak freely about these things. Don't say I didn't warn you though, they might go on for awhile! Use this when you speak to women and you are almost guaranteed that they will talk to you.
Learning how to speak to women doesn't have to a difficult process. If you use the above tips in your daily life, you should begin to see dramatic improvements almost instantly.
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Flirting Body Language - she will Melt Without you Using words

2009-11-21T14:39:00.000-08:00

There are many things that you can tell a woman without saying a thing audibly. Body language can always give you a lot from the conversations. The way you sit, whether you know it, has a lot for the body language. When you take up the space in a chair, it shows that you are dominating. For many women, this is a turn on and will make her melt without using you using words. Some flirting body language that you may want to know is:
Eye Contact
Your eyes have a lot to do with attraction. When you have the right amount of eye contact, you can attract anyone without having to say anything. This is through the different glances and you can cause a woman to be really attracted to you. It shows your interest. That is why most people who have succeed with it, have always started with the eye contact. With the glances that you give, you can easily attract the most prettiest of women.
Gestures
The gestures that you make will determine whether or not you are going to get anywhere with the woman. Gestures mean a lot of different things and require you to do a little bit of slow movement and nice, loving gestures that will make a woman want to be in company with you. For a long time, the gestures that were made from the man were construed to be very important to women. Nowadays it has not lost its importance. That is why it is very important to always keep your gestures subtle and flirty.
Mirroring
This takes some practice if you want to master the art of mirroring. This means that you mimic or mirror everything that the female does. This is a tactic that women use to tell the man that she would want to be touched on areas that she touches. By you touching those areas on yourself, you are telling her that you agree. It takes time and you may have some failures, but don't give up.
Dating women and getting them to melt without using your words takes time. You can do a lot of things that will make women melt, but the most important thing is to master the art of body language to become better at it. You never know if you will ever get a good looking woman if you don't try. Keep up the quest and you will be able to attract anyone you want.
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THERE IS A CYCLE IN ALMOST ALL RELATIONSHIPS.

2009-11-21T13:57:00.000-08:00

There seems to be trend that is common in most relationships. It is such trend as one partner not being as passionate as the other for a period of time.

Maybe you have been there before: you find out that all your effort to prove to that special person seems not to be returned as you expected. It might seem that person is seeming unresponsive enough for your liking while you are ready to swim the deepest see for him or her.

Well it will soon get to your turn, you will soon feel unconcerned-atlest that is what it will seem -and the other person seeem to have become more passionate than you. This is the trend and it is common in most relationship.

This trend might mean breaking up with a mate that has treated you badly even after recieving all the love you can give to him or her.That experience is such that people call HEART BREAK.It might so be that the one who broke your is trying to come back again. That is the trend its common its something you are probably going through now or something you will go through sometime in your present relationship or a future one.

When this is your experience remember that its a cycle and that though you seem to be at the recieving end today somehow, in the future, the tide will turn and the other person will like know what you are feeling now because the tide will turn in his or direction. Then you will decide what to do. Wether to PAY EVIL FOR EVIL or FORGIVE AND FORGET.

Just remember :it is a CYCLE in ALMOST ALL RELATIONSHIPS.

Simple And Effective Steps to Mend a Broken Heart.

2009-11-02T06:41:00.000-08:00

You miss that person who has been a perfect match for you for a while and now its like you are alone and your true and perfect match (boyfriend or girlfriend) has broken your heart.
You miss her smile. You miss her phone calls and text messages. You miss having her in your arms and sharing a good laugh together. You want her back so badly but it's all seem too late now. It's all over. Does it?

Good news is, it's not the end of the world. There are actually some proven strategy that work in most savable relationships.

There are 3 common scenarios that lead you to a broken heart and what you could do:

1. She broke up with you because she thought you were being bad. Stop wallowing in self pity and try to analyze the situation. Did the things she said make sense? If you are at fault, chances are that she still wants to be with you but she can't stand the thing you did. Give her a few days to cool down and then try to talk to her. Sincere apology and heart to heart conversation normally work wonders.

2. You broke up with her but now you regret it. Highly likely that she's as broken hearted as you are right now. Take your pride off and let her know you didn't mean what you said. Tell her what upset you and how two of you can work things out to make the relationship work.

3. You have talked things through with her and both agree that the relationship is not going to work, but you feel like a great deal of your life is missing. This is common when you have been together for a long time. Things are not really over yet. There are still things to say that may save the relationship when it's not suppose to end. It's not too late.

Often it's only a matter of saying the right thing at the right time to create a miracle.

How to Tell If a Guy is Serious About You

2009-10-31T06:39:00.000-07:00

So you have been dating a guy for some time and despite the fact that things are going well you do not know where you stand with him as he blows hot and cold with his affections and gives little away as to how he feels about you. Many women will analyze and over analyze the situation, seeking clues in which to affirm that 'he is serious' as though they are in denial of the true situation. This inevitably leads to heartbreak as they fail to read signs that he is just not interested. In order to give you a little insight into whether a guy is serious or not, read the following tips.

1: He calls when he says he will call - A guy who is serious about a woman will call. He will call her often and wish to talk about things in which the woman is interested in and to know about things going on in her life. He will make the time to call even if it is a few minutes when he is at work. In fact, he may not even notice the time as he chats with you. Conversely, a man who hardly calls and talks incessantly about himself with little regard for you is not interested. Nor, is a man who rather conveniently only calls you at night for the sole purpose of talking about explicit matters.

2: He does not call you at the last minute - A guy that calls at the last minute to ask what you are up to or fails to make arrangements for your next meeting at least three days in advance could just be spontaneous and adventurous however, watch him over time to see whether he is genuinely calling you because he really wants to spend quality time with you or whether his previous plans have fallen through and you are his next best option.

3: Convenience - When you and your boyfriend meet up does it usually involve renting a movie and going back to his home where his bed happens to be close by? Whilst it is romantic to spend time indoors, if this is the usual pattern and your man fails to take you out watch him as he may not be serious about you and only seeks your company for his own convenience and gratification.

4: He makes time for you - As a guy falls for woman, he seeks to make her a priority in his life. His time spent enjoying football with the boys will take a back seat in favour of spending time with you. He will want to spend time with you and enjoy partaking in the things you enjoy doing.

5: He wants to impress you - A man who is serious about you will want to look his best in your eyes. He will begin to take note of the way he dresses, grooms himself and will genuinely want to improve himself. When in a department store, he may ask you your opinion when trying on new clothes. To him, your opinion is valued.

6: It is in the eyes - It is often said that when we are attracted to someone, our pupils dilate and this is so true. There may be times when you may catch your man off guard and he is staring at you with dilated eyes. The longer he holds his gaze sometimes demonstrates the affection he has for you. It could also be a lustful stare however, if he is showing you signs of commitment in your relationship, be assured that he is indeed serious about you.

7: He will go all out for you - You have a sick relative who lives miles away and its 4am in the morning. You urgently want to see them. A man who loves you will think nothing of going out of his way to do something that he knows means a lot for you. In some cases, he may forgo his own needs so as to put yours first and would not give a second thought to being there for you. In other areas of your relationship, he may find himself starting to like the things you like such as music artists, types of food wine, TV programmes.

8: He introduces you to family and friends - For most guys bringing you home to meet his parents and friends are a big deal for him and shows that he is serious.

9: He allows you to keep your things at his place - A man can be territorial, meaning that he likes his space in his home and does not like anything to infringe that. So to you, leaving your toothbrush at his home is no big deal but to him it is like you are making yourself at home. Now, if he is serious about you, he will not raise an eyelid to you doing this. In fact, he would not care if you left your whole make up bag, shoes and whatever else you chose to leave in his home. However, if he is not serious about you, he may just remind you to take your things when you leave.

10: He does not tell but shows you - Yes, you read right. A guy who is genuinely serious about you may not necessarily declare it but will show it by being consistent about his intentions towards you. He will be affectionate and romantic and not blow hot and cold nor leave you in the lurch without a valid reason. When he eventually feels confident to tell you know that he is serious about you, you would already know because his actions 'show' commitment and seriousness. Therefore whilst dating your guy watch his actions over a period of time to see if what he says and what he does match up. If not, you need to re-think your relationship.

11: 'I' becomes 'we' - When referring to himself does he often include you and say 'we' as though you are a couple. If he is thoughtful enough to mention 'we' it shows that he is no longer taking his needs solely into account and is beginning to truly value your relationship.

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How to Take Control of Your Relationship - Take the Reigns and Don't Spare the Whip

2009-10-30T05:56:00.000-07:00

Ready to take control of your relationship? Ready to assert your self and take the reigns? Ready steer your relationship the way you want it to go instead of relying on him to make the decisions all the time? Good. Then let's begin. Here's what you will need to do to take control of your relationship.

Assert Yourself

It's no good being timid and letting yourself get pushed around. It is important to assert yourself in any relationship. Just like horses and dogs, men respond to confidence and assertiveness. They are bossy when they know that nobody's going to say no to them but as soon as you assert yourself he'll back down and give you the respect you deserve.

Making Sacrifices

Most people have to make sacrifices in order to be together, but there is a limit to how much you should have to give up. If it's usually you who ends up making the sacrifices then it's time to turn the situation around and make him sacrifice something for a change. If he complains tell him that a relationship is about compromises and that it's his turn to compromise.

Taking Responsibility

It's all about give and take. You can't have all the freedom and control without taking some of the responsibility too. Take some of the responsibilities off his shoulders and share in his troubles. This will give you more power and show him that you are deserving of respect. This is a great way to take control without causing a conflict. In most cases he will thank you for taking the responsibility of his back.

Sharing the Power

These days, most couples share power and make decisions together, this way both partners get to be in control. Of course it's not always realistic to make joint decisions so somebody will have to step up to the mark. But make sure you don't take too much power away from him or he'll lose his confidence and self-respect. The trick is take control of your relationship without him even noticing.

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How to Seduce a Woman - What Not to Do

2009-10-30T05:55:00.000-07:00

When it comes to seducing a woman, most men are pretty clueless. It's just the way things are. Seduction is a subtle thing if it is done right and most guys are pretty awkward when it comes to trying to act subtle. You either end up with guys that will not make any kind of move at all, and then there are the guys that try WAY too hard. You want to really fall somewhere in between. After all, you do want to be the kind of guy that can walk into any bar or club, approach a woman, and leave with HER, am I right?

So, what should YOU do to seduce a woman?

Well instead of telling you what to do, I decided to put together a small list of things you should NEVER do at ALL!

Here they are:

1. Run cheesy out of date pick up lines on her. Unless you are looking to get slapped in the face, laughed at, or just shut down without any hope at all, NEVER use one of these. Look, anyone that recommends that you use pick up lines to seduce women probably has never seduced a woman in their life. At least, not an attractive woman.

2. Try a long winded routine. Unless you are a great actor, there is no point in trying to memorize some routine only to mess it up later on. And there are a lot of women out there that can see through these routines and they will reject you on this principle alone.

3. Try to approach every woman that you can, hoping that one will fall for YOU. This is that classic approach ten or twenty women and you are guaranteed to succeed. Well, that might be true, but that has more to do with probability than skill. You want to know what works to seduce a woman so that you can eye a woman, choose her, and know how to make it happen. That is skill and that is real selection.

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Dating Tips For Men - Flirting Advice You Need to Know

2009-10-30T05:53:00.000-07:00

A lot of guys have a hard time when it comes to flirting. This is pretty natural. You want to feel comfortable flirting with a woman and you want to be able to make her feel the same. Really, you don't just want to make her feel comfortable, you want to also spark a little interest in her as well. So, no matter what, if you truly want to be successful with women, then you have to know how to flirt. It's that simple.

Here are a few tips that you need to know when it comes to flirting with a woman:

1. Women get nervous too. Just check out the titles of some of the articles in women's magazines and you will see that there are a lot of women that have a hard time flirting as well. The thing is, as a man, it's natural for you to lead the interaction. If you are nervous and she is nervous, the whole situation will be awkward. And guess what happens when the situation gets awkward. The chances of building attraction go down, down, down.

2. Talking is not the only way to flirt. Many men will run their mouths a hundred miles an hour when they don't know what they should do. And the things that come out, well, they are not what you want to say when you are trying to create that spark of attraction with a woman. Use your body language as well. Most communication is non verbal, anyway, so you really want to learn how to use it to flirt with a woman.

3. Make it fun. Above all, you have to make it fun for you and for HER. If the interaction is not fun, there is nothing there that will lead to more. And you will not get the result that you want. Take a little pressure off yourself and her, and just have fun with a woman.

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How To Get a Girlfriend Very Quickly

2009-10-30T05:03:00.000-07:00

Most guys have a TERRIBLE time when it comes to getting a girlfriend. Well, I should rephrase that a bit. Most men have a hard time getting a girlfriend that they REALLY want. Instead, they will end up just floating around until they find a woman that seems to be better than nothing. Sounds pretty bleak, I know. But, it does NOT have to be that way. You can choose, you can decide, to be the kind of guy that DOES get what he wants. You can learn how to attract a woman that is sexy, hot, and WAY out of your league.

You just have to know what works to make a woman feel that way for YOU.

So, how can you get a girlfriend fast?

You cannot be afraid to approach a woman that you find attractive. You cannot be one of those guys that checks her out as she walks by, nudges his pal on the arm and does NOTHING at all. You have to be able to get over any fear of rejection and walk up to her and know what to do and what to say to build attraction with her.

You have to be able to flirt with her in a way that creates emotional tension.

Most men are afraid to go there. Instead of building sexual tension with a woman, they build more of an acquaintance or a friendship if anything at all. Look, life is not like the movies. The girls best friend does not get her at the end. Instead, he gets to watch her date other men and hear the stories from her mouth.

You have to be willing to take chances.

You cannot sit at home in the SAFE zone and expect to suddenly have women chasing after you. This is not going to happen. You have to be willing to take the chance and make your move when the situation presents itself. Otherwise, you will regret it later.

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A Few Tips to Help Singles Make the Right Choice While Searching For a Date

2009-10-30T04:46:00.000-07:00

There are several websites that offer free single dating services for individuals who are looking for that perfect match. The internet has evolved and has only proven to be one of the best communication tools of our times. You have access to chat room, emails, internet telephony etc to help you build on a relation or simply to stay in touch with others. These are again a few common tools that most online dating sites offer so that you can stay in touch with other individuals listed on their sites.

However, there are a few rules to online dating even if the service is free. It is essential to follow these rules if you are serious about finding the right individual who will sweep you off your feet.

• Most free dating websites are not genuine, you will need to check for one that will help you post your profile and let you view profiles of those listed on their site.

• You will need to check if the profiles listed in free websites are genuine. This you will know when you read their online public profile.

• The agency that you choose should also let other members with free profile registration.

• You should be able to post more than one picture of yours on your profile with no cost.

• The site that you choose should be appealing enough and should be easy to use. It should also suit your style. If you're looking to find a partner from a similar sect or community, then choose specialized dating sites.

• The online dating service that is free should have a customer service email or id so you could get intouch with them.

• Make sure that the website has its agency telephone numbers and address posted on the website. This should help you know if the free single dating site is genuine or no.

• You should be able to browse and view profiles for no extra cost.

Choosing the perfect Free Single Dating site could not be easy. However, there are a few tips that will help you with it. For more information, visit http://www.online-dating-service-sg.com.

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